Sunday, September 12, 2010

Will distance dating relationships last?

I am not sure how you feel about this issue, but I think that if you wish to go on a distance dating, then you must be mentally prepared. There are certain things that you need to take note.

It is very possible that your partner may stray when you're not around. This is human nature and if you wish to try distance dating, then you must have absolute trust and faith in your partner. If this is not the case, you guys will not end up together in the end. I believe that in any relationships, there has to be trust. If you're not prepared for this kind of commitment, then it is better that you give it up.

If you do not make it a point to communicate often, and it is very likely that the love will slowly fade. This is especially so if you guys are not meeting for a long time, such as a year. You may even question yourself why are you in this relationship in the first place? I'm sure you will get the answer.

To sum it up, long distance dating will last if both partners are willing to put their part. If not, I would urge you to give it a serious thought.

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Getting a patch back using YouTube videos?

I read this article about an UK woman who literally poured her heart out in YouTube videos after breaking up with her boyfriend. She was very devastated when her boyfriend walked out on her. She decided to record how pain in videos and then upload them onto YouTube.

Apparently, her ex-boyfriend was informed of the videos, who would then back her to take him back after he watched the videos. She talked about how she found it difficult to eat or sleep after the breakup. There were a total of 62 videos, and it seems like it was a win-win situation for her. She has gotten the support from her friends, family members and even strangers.

I have to respect her for her courage to upload these videos. I have not watched them yet, but I think it takes a lot of courage to cry on the videos, especially those that were uploaded onto YouTube. I wish her and her boyfriend of the best. God bless you Kelly Summers!

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

How to win your man back

If you are in a situation whereby you are separated from your boyfriend or husband, then it is very important that you know what to do if you wish to get your man back. Separation is a very painful process, but all is not lost. Listen up here!

If you're serious about saving your dating relationship, then you need to first overcome your anxious feeling. It can feel really bad, and you might even do things that will chase your guy away forever. Learn how to take things into your own stride. The more you try to get him back, the more he will run away. Stop messaging or e-mailing him!

What you have to do now is to shift your focus on your work and your personal life. Keep in contact with your friends. Get involved in your social life once again. You had to stay busy and make it clear to him that you can do without him. He will see the change in you. And since you are not in contact with him any more, he might feel your absence. He might even start to miss you! If he tried to contact you and wish for a meet up, then play hard to get.

Playing hard to get can be a simple way to get him interested in you again. However, do not overdo it. After a few rejections to meet him, agreed to his next appointment. Seize this opportunity to talk about the problem.